The weather forecast didn't say rain: gloomy grey blanket cloud cover yes and sunny intervals . . . haven't seen one yet, and I've been checking the sky. Nope — grey, varying shades of, and steady rain, 'set in for the day' as my mother always quotes her father as saying. Thinking weather, reflecting time, jobs done for the day and the house is silent without the sound of piano and bread tins rattling.
I don't think I've done a romantic type post before, so here goes. Before I met Mark we had both had our fair share of mess-ups: minor and spectacular and were deliriously happy to have finally stopped all that and got down to some serious stuff, so to speak.
I remember the first time I ever saw him; he was playing the accordion dressed in a stripy t.shirt, a trio I think it was, but I can't recall the other instruments, my mind was far too occupied forming a mental picture of him that I would then carry around with me for some time after.
Fast forward a year or two and we were living together: me, him and the accordion. It just clicked as they say. Yes we have niggles — I do wish he would put the electric toothbrush on its stand; he can get a little domineering in the kitchen — talking about cooking here, otherwise . . . er nothing comes to mind really. He probably wishes I was a little less technology phobic, maybe I ramble on a bit sometimes about plants or suchlike, but I can tell when he's glazing over, otherwise, nothing, as far as I know, well you can tell me dear if there is, on your return.
Why does it work? Sense of humour: hundred percent important, same view on the world, music, art, nature, walking, the sea, our house and garden, letting things unfold without a plan as such, 'the boy' of course, and yes I still carry that image of Mark in the stripy T.shirt and I still feel the same way.